Thursday, December 28, 2017

Guiding Star 2018 #2: It Was The Best of Times It Was The Worst

Perhaps you keep a gratitude journal or have a gratitude practice. Perhaps you intend to have a gratitude practice, but never seem to get to it.

Today's exercise, It Was The Best of Times, It Was The Worst of Times, is a variation on the gratitude practice concept. Today, you are going to explore your accomplishments and disappointments over the past year. Looking at both sides helps as we consider what we want to discard and what we want to keep in our lives.




It Was The Best of Times, It Was The Worst of Times Exercise 

Materials: For this exercise, you will need something to write on or in. A journal, a computer, or scratch paper - doesn't matter. You are writing this for yourself. No one else will see it, unless you choose to show it.

Time: I recommend that you set a timer for 15 minutes for each section. Like yesterday's exercise, you probably won't be done in 15 minutes. It's okay if that's all the time you have. You can also come back to this exercise anytime you want throughout the day.

Here we go:

#1 - List 5-10 accomplishments of the past year. Contemplate your personal life, your career, your relationships, how you spent your time. Examples:
Saw my sister graduate from college
Kept an exercise routine for 6 months
Feb. work project was huge success
Disney World :)
Ate more vegetables
Started Invisalign
Spent a day hiking with Melinda


#2 - Now list 5-10 disappointments of the past year. As with the accomplishments, consider all aspects of your life. Examples:
March work project failed
Didn't get the job I wanted
Mom died
Still feel angry too often
Couldn't find the time for dance classes


If you get more than 10, especially accomplishments, keep going!

Let your Buddy know when you're finished. Sharing this exercise is optional.

Always remember:
Positive works
Keep it brief
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Congratulations! You're all done for today.

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Your Guiding Star 2018
Guiding Star #1: My Crystal Ball

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